I thought I’ll write you - hopefully my Dream Girl - a bit more in an open and frank letter. And continue that way to answer your questions you might want to ask before meeting me live. Don’t get scared of the intensity – I rather dive deep than just skim the surface. (I will not reply to copy-paste meaningless letters.)

Do you know the Story of O? I read it many years ago and realized who I am. My journey had begun and I am still traveling...

I would like to find out our chemistries immediately by meeting face-to-face, it's so much either/or. But since it's not going to happen this week yet (yes, I am impatient), may I have some more input as far as who you are. Are you OK with revealing more of yourself?

Hopefully just like you, I look for the person rather than just a list of interests or looks alone. I can predict we'll make friends (after a great conversation) when we meet, no doubt. (Worst case scenario: we'll just make normal friends). But love?

I've met only four girls in my life that really did click. So it is not a weekly thing to be in love. But this type of pre-screening to find like-minded people sure narrows the chances down while it brings in new people.

I am a perfect gentleman during the day (e-hem, that's my own understanding) but that's why I love to dig out other aspects out of my personality at night.

Anyway, I do adore a smart, caring and feminine lady. The real feminine submissiveness is the expectation that someone else takes the lead and control in sex. That's the exciting unknown for her - and I enjoy providing just that. These are the smart and talented ladies, often very independent, those that most people wouldn't even guess to be submissive. But that's the whole point, it is submissive in *sexuality*, it's a spice in sex and relationship, it is not the case of the tough guy and the rag doll girl without her own will at all.

My age can be an asset as it brings experience and maturity, which here in my case means the ability to work and adapt to your situation, needs and limits. It is also safety, as I know myself being responsible, sane and never have lost my self-control over any situation (anywhere in life). I do not believe that more experience will create a need for rougher behavior - it is actually the opposite. Only in the very beginning one has to try everything not tried before. But more experience creates the connoisseur, the French Chef in this trade (I still keep on learning - after all, this *is* life!). Only with more experience I've learned this much and just maybe I would intuitively know how to enjoy you with very little input and even by very small subtle words/gestures. And it's a relationship with enormous amounts of respect and trust both ways at its best.

That flip side of our personality (the dark side, which I rather call it the Night Side, the FUN sensual and spontaneous side) is there in everyone, it is the opportunity for an exciting adventure. We don't even fully know ourselves sexually after all the years... those instincts are so deep in the most ancient part of the human mind that most people never even seem to realize they exist! Or they are scared of themselves... (Don't I just love anthropology!)

... and once you do discover this sensual world, you can't really stop, it is so mind intriguing and tempting!

Hopefully you did already understand I am a courteous man with manners. I do treat ladies well - and speak, generally, respectfully to ladies, even when disciplining you or taking my pleasure the way I want to... I do believe the true domination/submission is mental first and foremost. And it is a relationship. I am genuinely warm and caring with a healthy self-confidence, thus I can naturally be myself as a very strict and dominant man at night.

Let's meet soon, otherwise we'll never know.

I sure need to see a glimpse of your eyes in real... Yes, I do believe eyes are the mirror of the soul! (As brains create true sensuality and sexuality ...) Important: If you did read this far, please write me in your first letter something so that I will know you have read this - not only copy-pasted your letter to me!

Let me know your first thoughts... hoping we'll get a chance to learn about each over a drink/beer/tea.

Kisses,

Kari

Gentle, smart, caring, sensually maybe a bit submissive lady at night, with her own great personality! I plan to visit Ukraine and Russia soon.
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My dear friends I will let you know when I know my travel dates...

English: I am advanced in every skill
Finnish: I am advanced in every skill
French: I can read and write very well and speak on everyday topics